Come Curious: Sex Q&A
Florence and Reed, aka Come Curious, are two Sex Positive bloggers who fully behind the self-love movement.
How can I get my boyfriend to willingly go down on me?
Reed: Well, we are huge believers in communication. Talk to your partner and explain that it’s so pleasurable for you.
Florence: There’s nothing wrong with being scared about it either. Just look some good tips up online, do you research.
How can I get into the field of sex education?!
Florence: There are loads of courses out there.
Reed: There are not enough sex positive people, so if it’s one of your passions, definitely put yourself out there and start bringing up the conversation.
Come Curious
Name: Reed & Florence
About: Reed and Florence are two sex positive and body confidence bloggers who believe that being open and talking about sex will spread valuable knowledge and relieve some anxieties that surround the subject.
I can’t find my G-spot! I only have orgasms when rubbing my clit (what’s not bad at all). Where TF is it?
Florence: You can find your G-spot if you insert two fingers into your vagina and if you move your fingers up like this, you’ll feel some sort of walnut feeling thing, and that is your G-spot.
There are not enough sex positive people, so if it’s one of your passions, definitely put yourself out there and start bringing up the conversation.Come Curious
Reed: G-spots do feel different for every single person, but it’s usually on the other side of your venus mound. Kind of up there.
I find penetration really painful/non-pleasurable. How common is this?
Florence: Pain during penetration is really common but it shouldn't be.
Reed: We’ve both experienced it, but sex should be pleasurable, so you need to look into why you’re experiencing pain.
Florence: Using lube could be a really easy solution for this.
Reed: It could even be hormonal changes. Definitely something to look into or go and see a doctor about.
Is it normal that I don’t have an orgasm every time I’m having sex?
Florence: Not being able to orgasm isn’t something you should be ashamed of.
Reed: For most people, there’s just a lack of understanding that sex can be pleasurable without an orgasm.
Florence: There are so many other things you can do with sex that are just as good.
Reed: Just be cool, communicate and talk about it baby.
