Sikhism as a family religion
The family is an essential social structure and unit in Sikhism. Family life was encouraged by Guru NanakGuru Nanak was the founder of Sikhism and the first of the ten Gurus, who lived from 1469 to 1539. and the GuruCan mean God, teacher or guide. Usually means a teacher of religion. In Sikhism, it also refers to the ten human messengers of God. who succeeded him.
Roles of men and women in the family
Sikh women have total spiritualityThe inner, non-physical workings of the individual, often seen as the way humans can come into contact with the divine. equality with men, but the roles of men and women differ. Men are more active in society at large and women have more responsibilities in the home.
Women are traditionally seen as mothers and have the important role of bringing up the children within the family, as reflected in the teachings by Guru Nanak:
We are conceived and born from women. Woman is our life-long friend and keeps the race going. Why should we despise her, the one who gives birth to great men?
Traditionally, Sikh fathers may have been the provider for the family financially. However, it is increasingly the case that families depend financially on the salaries of both parents. In modern society, Sikh fathers' roles may increasingly include active involvement in childcare and in the upbringing of children. The Guru Granth SahibThe Guru Granth Sahib is the most important Sikh holy book. It is a collection of songs, prayers and hymns from the Sikh Gurus and other holy men, as well as teachings from other faiths. It is treated as a living Guru. compares the relationship of the creator and creation to that of father and child. God is called both father and mother.
Protection and nurturing
Sikhs are encouraged to live as a family unit to provide and nurture children for the benefit of creation. Sikhism emphasises the importance of the family and the householder stage of life, ie being parents and providers for children. It does not encourage opting out of these responsibilities even if it is for a spiritual goal.
Sikhs, like other members of South Asian society, take it for granted that it is the duty of sons and daughters-in-law to look after the son's parents.