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Beating Dad!

Tim Parks is having problems with his son - the boy just doesn't know when to let dad win!

Fifteen love.
This is it, the decisive game. Mick serving for the set.
And I'm already down. I hate losing!
Just turned fourteen, Michele is already taller than me and heavier. No doubt handsomer. Yep, he's overtaken me in all kinds of ways - but he still hasn't beaten me at tennis!

Not that I'm any good at tennis. In fact we're both pretty useless. The first few games are even-Stevens, then around three all, he collapses and I forge ahead. But today things are going the other way. For God's sake, I'm going to lose! Why isn't my son collapsing?
Forty love.
Three set points, I tell him
He's going to collapse. I sense it. Suddenly I don't want him to collapse. I want him to win, to have his day, to overtake me. For heaven's sake, Tim wants to lost. To lose. It's a weird feeling.

Mick double faults and has a tantrum. I'm damned if I'm losing on purpose in response to his tantrum. On the other hand I now really want him to win.

Mick relaxes and hits a really long low powerful ball I just can't reach.
Set!
Coming to the net, he grins. "You're finished , old man."
"The battle's ... only just ... beginning, " I tell him. "From now on ... the gloves are off."
But I'm panting, and he knows it.

Do you remember the first time you beat your parents at their own game?
As a parent do you remember the mixture of crushing defeat and parental pride when you were first beaten by your child?

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