My sex work and my faith
How can you reconcile sex-work with faith? Some sex workers find religious kinks sell. But how hard is it to maintain your religious faith as a sex worker?
Aaliyah grew up a devout Muslim but now makes adult content for the online service Only Fans. Sheβs often pictured wearing a hijab. Aaliyah is her stage name. Sheβs had death threats but believes that expressing her sexuality and making her own choices about her body are empowering. She has also had support from young Muslim women and couples. She was brought up in the UK as a Muslim and began to question her faith at the age of 12, when her parents got divorced. She says, βMy work now is definitely a rebellion against my upbringing. Iβm tired of being told how women should beβ. Aaliyah still describes herself as Muslim and feels that her sex work is more important than the version of Islam she grew up with.
Can you be a sex worker and still follow your faith? Sex work has always challenged religion. Although itβs broadly considered immoral within Christianity, Islam and Judaism, sacred texts carry some mixed messages. Women sex workers often see male religious leaders condemning them in public, whilst buying their services in private.
In Bangalore in India, women at a sex workers cooperative think religion is compatible with their work. One Christian, whoβs a mother and wife, says her family donβt know how she makes her living. βI can talk to God about it when I canβt talk to my husbandβ. In Nigeria, a Muslim sex worker weβre calling Zara operates in an area where sex work is illegal and dangerous. But she draws strength from her faith. βI know what God says about selling sex, that itβs against the religion but he understands that I have to do it.β
In this edition of Heart and Soul, for the ΒιΆΉΤΌΕΔ World Service, Julia Paul speaks to consensual female sex workers in the UK, Nigeria and India and explores how faith and sex work co-exist in their lives.
Producer: Julia Paul
Series Producer: Rajeev Gupta
Production Coordinator: Mica Nepomuceno
Editor: Helen Grady
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