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Mothering Sunday

The Bishop of Lancaster Jill Duff preaches from the Chapel of Ripley St Thomas Church of England Academy, Lancaster in a service for Mothering Sunday.

The Bishop of Lancaster Jill Duff preaches from the Chapel of Ripley St Thomas Church of England Academy, Lancaster in a service for Mothering Sunday. She is joined by the Vicar of Lancaster Revd Leah Vasey-Saunders, School Chaplain Michael Reynolds and pupils from the school who help lead the service; with music from the school choirs and the choir from St Luke’s Church of England Primary School, Slyne-with Hest.
Christ be with Me (Oliver Tarney); Sing we of the blessed Mother (t: Abbot’s Leigh); Kyrie (St Anne’s Mass – James Macmillan); Psalm 34 vv11-20 (t: Mawby); In the silence and the darkness (t: Garnett); 1 Samuel 2.1-10; Magnificat (t: Owen Alstott); John 19.16-27; Lord of all hopefulness (t: Slane); Upon your heart  (Eleanor Daley); Tell out my soul, (t: Woodlands); Gigue (Jacquet de la Guerre).
Conductor: Don Gillthorpe, Organist: Ian Pattinson. Producer: James Mountford.

38 minutes

Last on

Sun 10 Mar 2024 08:10

Programme Script

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It may contain gaps to be filled in at the time so that prayers may reflect the needs of the world, and changes may also be made at the last minute for timing reasons, or to reflect current events.

鶹Լ Radio 4 Sunday Worship

Mothering Sunday

Ripley St Thomas CE Academy, Lancaster

INTROIT

Christ be with me

Words from a prayer by St Patrick (5th century)

Music: OLIVER TARNEY (b.1984)

WELCOME AND GATHERING

LVS Good morning. Welcome to Sunday Worship from the Chapel of Ripley St Thomas Church of England Academy in the ancient city of Lancaster, situated to the south of the Lake District and a few miles inland from Morecambe Bay. My name is The Reverend Leah Vasey-Saunders and I’m the Vicar of Lancaster. Today is Mothering Sunday and, in today’s service, we want to give thanks to God for mothers and all those who play a caring role. Our service will also be led by pupils from the school.

Pupil Through the patronage of Thomas and Julia Ripley, this school started life in 1864 as the Ripley Hospital, an orphanage for three hundred children from Lancaster and Liverpool. It’s now the biggest school in Lancashire, with over seventeen hundred pupils aged eleven to eighteen. My name is Benji…

Pupil …and I am Alicia, and we are both in Year 11 here. Choral singing is a defining feature of our school, and our Chapel Choir, who opened our service today, leads acts of public worship throughout the year which doesn’t happen in many schools. We’re delighted to be joined by The Right Revd Dr Jill Duff, Bishop of Lancaster, who is our preacher today, and our school chaplain Michael Reynolds who will help to lead our worship.

LVS We meet in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

All Amen.

LVS In you, O God, every family on earth receives its name.

All Illumine our homes with the light of your love.

LVS We thank you for gifts of love we have received.

All For all who nurture, nourish and guide us as we grow to be who we are.

LVS As we have been loved by them, so we are loved by you, O God.

Join with us in this day of celebration as we rejoice in being loved.

God’s grace, mercy and peace be with you.

All And also with you.

HYMN

Sing we of the blessed Mother

Words: G.B. TIMMS (1910-1997)

Music: Abbot’s Leigh by CYRIL TAYLOR (1907-1991)

PENITENTIAL RITE

Michael Let us call to mind our failure to value the love of others and our failure to love as Christ has loved us.

Silence is kept.

Michael We confess to you our selfishness and lack of love: fill us with your Spirit.

Lord, have mercy.

All Lord, have mercy.

Michael We confess to you our fear and failure in sharing our faith: fill us with your Spirit. Christ, have mercy.

All Christ, have mercy.

Michael We confess to you our stubbornness and lack of trust: fill us with your Spirit. Lord, have mercy.

All Lord, have mercy.

LVS May the Father of all mercies cleanse you from your sins, and restore you in his image to the praise and glory of his name, through Jesus Christ our Lord.

All Amen.

Pupil With us today are friends from St Luke’s Church of England Primary School, Slyne-with-Hest. They join our singing of Psalm 34, remembering King David’s encouragement to the next generation.

RESPONSORIAL PSALM Psalm 34.11-20

Music: COLIN MAWBY (1936-2009)

With Primary school pupils joining with the refrain.

COLLECT

LVS Let us pray.

God of compassion,

whose Son Jesus Christ, the child of Mary,

shared the life of a home in Nazareth,

and on the cross drew the whole human family to himself: strengthen us in our daily living

that in joy and in sorrow

we may know the power of your presence

to bind together and to heal;

through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord,

who is alive and reigns with you,

in the unity of the Holy Spirit,

one God, now and for ever.

All Amen.

HYMN

In the silence and the darkness

Words: MOTHER CARRIE THOMPSON (b.1977)

Music: Garnett by DON GILLTHORPE (b.1984)

READING 1 Samuel 2.1-10

Pupil A reading from the first book of Samuel.

Hannah prayed and said,

‘My heart exults in theLord;

my strength is exalted in my God.

My mouth derides my enemies,

because I rejoice in my[victory.

‘There is no Holy One like theLord,

no one besides you;

there is no Rock like our God.

He raises up the poor from the dust;

he lifts the needy from the ash heap,

to make them sit with princes

and inherit a seat of honour.

For the pillars of the earth are theLord’s,

and on them he has set the world.

‘He will guard the feet of his faithful ones,

but the wicked shall be cut off in darkness;

for not by might does one prevail.

TheLord! His adversaries shall be shattered;

the Most High will thunder in heaven.

TheLordwill judge the ends of the earth;

he will give strength to his king,

and exalt the power of his anointed.’

For the word of the Lord:

All Thanks be to God.

MAGNIFICAT

Music: OWEN ALSTOTT (b.1947)

With Primary school pupils joining with the refrain.

READING John 19.16-27

Pupil A reading from the Gospel according to St John.

Then he handed him over to them to be crucified. So they took Jesus; and carrying the cross by himself, he went out to what is called The Place of the Skull, which in Hebrewis called Golgotha. There they crucified him, and with him two others, one on either side, with Jesus between them. Pilate also had an inscription written and put on the cross. It read, ‘Jesus of Nazareth,the King of the Jews.’ Many read this inscription, because the place where Jesus was crucified was near the city; and it was written in Hebrew,in Latin, and in Greek. Then the chief priests said to Pilate, ‘Do not write, “The King of the Jews”, but, “This man said, I am King of the Jews.”’Pilate answered, ‘What I have written I have written.’When the soldiers had crucified Jesus, they took his clothes and divided them into four parts, one for each soldier. They also took his tunic; now the tunic was seamless, woven in one piece from the top.So they said to one another, ‘Let us not tear it, but cast lots for it to see who will get it.’ This was to fulfil what the scripture says,

‘They divided my clothes among themselves,

and for my clothing they cast lots.’

And that is what the soldiers did.

Meanwhile, standing near the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene.When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, here is your son.’Then he said to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home.

For the word of the Lord:

All Thanks be to God.

SERMON

The Rt Revd Dr Jill Duff, Bishop of Lancaster

1 Samuel 2. 1-10

Magnificat

John 19.16-27

“He has filled the hungry with good things” (Luke 1.53)

“Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother” (John 19.25)

These two verses span thirty-three years of Mary’s life. The joy and pain of being the mother of Jesus. From the joy of her full-throttle praise when she shares the amazing news of her pregnancy with cousin Elizabeth, to the desolation and pain as she surrenders her son to death on a cross.

The joy and pain of motherhood

The joy and pain of mothering Sunday.

Perhaps for you, today is a day of joy. I remember filling my application form for being a bishop. After twelve pages of minute details about my life, I finally came to a box labelled: “Any other information”. YES, I typed with indignation, the best thing not on my CV is being a mum to two boys. They are both taller than me now, but being their mum has brought me so much joy. I am sorry when women feel they ought to apologise for their children in the workplace, or for taking time to be at home to care for them. It’s not all joy – as 鶹Լ comedy Motherland depicts with insight. But there’s lots to treasure. Talking of CVs, my son aged six, once announced: “Mummy, you’re good at three things”. “Choosing nice clothes, putting on make-up, and finding fun things for us to do”. Being a mum has filled my heart with good things.

But perhaps for you today, today is a day of pain. It could be you longed to have children and this simply has never been possible. Or perhaps pain is woven deep: through loss of your mum; a painful relationship with your mum, or maybe you never even knew your mum. Maybe today, you find yourself at the cross, your heart pierced with pain, like Mary.

Pain can become a landing pad for evil. I discovered this quite personally just before lockdown. It came to light when I least expected it to: Lambeth Palace, HQ of the C of E, during a meeting of all the bishops. As a way of offering us some much-appreciated space to pray, the dedicated praying community at Lambeth, the Community of St Anselm, had converted parts of this ancient building into prayer rooms, based round Psalm 139, a psalm which speaks of God’s care for us. It was a very restoring time.

But one prayer room was called the “womb room”. It had blacked out windows, lit with soft red light, a heart-beat pulsing, based on the verse: “For you created my inmost being, you knit me together in my mother’s womb” (Psalm 139.13). I felt a sense of repulsion (talk of wombs felt out of place here in a predominantly male environment) and I judiciously avoided this room. Until the end. I felt I really had to go in there to pray. I sat down in the dark. And quite unexpectedly, burst into floods of tears. I went to find one of the chaplains: “I don’t understand why I am so upset. I had a happy childhood. Except my Mum didn’t want children…. Aha...” as the last words came out of my mouth, it was like something I hadn’t ever vocalised came out into the light.

I was due to see my spiritual director, Jenny, a fortnight later. A spiritual director is a fancy name for someone who takes care of you spiritually...She has been like a spiritual Mum to me over the last twenty years or so; her wisdom and spiritual discernment are spot on. So I brought up the story with her. Tears again. “I don’t understand why I am so upset”. “Jill”, she said tenderly, “Listen to your tears”. In my head, I pushed back – What? I don’t listen to tears, I am a scientist and I think things through rationally… But I could make no sense… and so I listened…. And deep in my heart emerged a question: “Am I wanted?”

“Am I wanted?” I had never realised I had been living with that question all my life. Since my conception. As Jenny gently prayed for me, I felt sick, very sick. It was like deep darkness was coming out of me. Leaving a massive gap. “I see an image of you being born as a baby with Jesus cradling you, laughing with delight”, she whispered. She prayed that where the darkness had left, I would be filled with His joy. Gosh! My heart felt fit to burst. An overwhelming sense of joy flooded in, almost bursting my heart. In fact, the following day I was leading a quiet day for some curates. “Bishop Jill” they commented, “You are carrying so much joy”. Too right. I had just spent time with the surgeon of our souls- Jesus Christ himself!

As we reflected on that deep dark root, it was as if Jesus unravelled a dark thread which had connected me to my own mother and grandmother’s story.

When my Mum was born, so she was told, my granddad looked away in disappointment. Because she was a girl. That sounds harsh and sexist, but it was quite common for fathers to think like that in those days. And there was a back story. Back in the day, my Gran gave birth to her first baby at home. It was a breach birth. Michael was stillborn. Then came my aunt. Then a last-ditch attempt, in her late 30s to have a boy. If you had met my Mum, I sometimes felt she had the word “disappointment” written on her forehead. She assumed, from the day she was born, that she would disappoint. Because she was a girl. It was as if I had picked up her reticence too – even before birth. But when darkness revealed itself in the light of Jesus, he wonderfully unravelled and uprooted it. And filled me with such joy. Like Mary’s song – he filled the hungry with good things.

On this Mothering Sunday, whatever your story, may you know that you are wanted by God. You are treasured. He sees you in the joy and in the pain. Listen to the tears. He longs to fill you with good things.

ANTHEM

Upon your heart

Eleanor Daley

PRAYERS

Pupil Heavenly Father,

we praise and glorify you for your steadfast love

and the nurture of all your children.

On this Mothering Sunday, we give special thanks for our mothers

and all those who care for us.

We think of all those for whom today is challenging:

Those who no longer have a mother,

Those who cannot be or are no longer mothers,

And those who have difficult relationships with their families.

Protect them. Guide them.

Comfort them. Strengthen them.

God of Love:

All Hear our prayer

Pupil As we meet to celebrate the care and compassion of our mothers,

We are grateful that we are loved, supported and safe.

We pray for all those around the world whose safety is threatened

through war and violence.

We lift to you the Middle East, Ukraine, and other areas of conflict.

Guide the leaders of the world in the ways of freedom, justice and truth;

Help us all, to remember the cost of war,

and to work for a better tomorrow;

As we commend to you lives lost in terror and conflict,

bring us all to know the peace of your presence.

God of Love:

All Hear our prayer

Pupil A prayer of St Anselm:

Jesus, like a mother you gather your people to you;

you are gentle with us as a mother with her children.

Despair turns to hope through your sweet goodness;

through your gentleness we find comfort in fear.

Your warmth gives life to the dead,

your touch makes sinners righteous.

Lord Jesus, in your mercy heal us;

in your love and tenderness remake us.

In your compassion bring grace and forgiveness,

for the beauty of heaven may your love prepare us.

God of Love:

All Hear our prayer

Let us pray with confidence as our Saviour has taught us.

Our Father, who art in heaven,

hallowed be thy name;

thy kingdom come;

thy will be done;

on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread.

And forgive us our trespasses,

as we forgive those who trespass against us.

And lead us not into temptation;

but deliver us from evil.

For thine is the kingdom,

the power and the glory,

for ever and ever.

Amen.

HYMN

Tell out my soul

Words: TIMOTHY DUDLEY-SMITH

Music: Woodlands by WALTER GREATOREX (1877-1949)

BLESSING AND DISMISSAL

+Jill The love of the Lord Jesus draw you to himself,

the power of the Lord Jesus strengthen you in his service,

the joy of the Lord Jesus fill your hearts;

and the blessing of God Almighty,

the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit

be among you and remain with you always.

All Amen.

LVS Go in peace to love and serve the Lord

All In the name of Christ. Amen

VOLUNTARY

Gigue

Elisabeth Jacquet de la Guerre (1665-1729)

Played by Ian Pattinson FRCO


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