20/09/2023
A reflection and prayer to start the day with the Rt Rev Mary Stallard, Bishop of Llandaff.
A reflection and prayer to start the day with the Rt Revd Mary Stallard, Bishop of Llandaff.
Good morning.
At the Eisteddfod festival of Welsh culture and language this summer I had an opportunity to choose and buy a small, enamelled badge giving my preferred pronouns in Welsh. It made me think more about current debates around how we talk about ourselves and one another.
Iβd surprised myself when Iβd felt irritated at a different event recently when, without asking me, someone had added βshe/herβ to my name-badge. I found that I didnβt like someone making assumptions about my choices.
All of this has made me think more about and how people of faith know and name God. Christians often pray to βour Fatherβ, βLordβ and βKingβ in public prayer. The Bible also contains many, more varied descriptions of our maker. Godβs also described in neutral ways such as βrulerβ, βcreatorβ, βlightβ, a βshelterβ, and on one occasion Jesus draws on the female image of a mother-hen protecting her chicks.
If we search the Bible for Godβs pronouns, thereβs an intriguing clue at the beginning, in one of the Genesis creation stories, where God says, βlet us make human-kindβ.
Iβm learning through recent debates about language, that fresh, creative thinking can be enriching as well as challenging and Iβve been surprised how recent arguments around pronouns have made me consider more carefully my feelings about inclusion and how I welcome others.
God of many names, thank you, that you bless us and the world through your diverse gifts in creation and language. In our speaking, choices and all our living, may we seek to embody and embrace all thatβs good and be signs of your love for all. Amen.