08/02/2019
A short reflection and prayer to begin the day with Canon Simon Doogan, Church of Ireland Rector of Ballyholme in Bangor Co Down
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Friday 8 February 2019
Good morning.
13 years ago our Friday Parish Centre lunch club was born
in response to a community survey
identifying βsocial isolationβ or loneliness as a significant local issue.
For all our regulars,
myself included as taster-in-chief β
itβs one of the highlights of the week.
Not least because no one likes to eat along
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On a school-friendβs kitchen wall, a sign read:
βChrist is the head of this home, the unseen guest at every meal,
the silent listener to every conversationβ.
Where that last part as a boy I found quite unsettling,
the idea of Jesus taking a permanent place at the dinner table stuck with me.
As I would discover, the concept of a meal as less about taking on bodily fuel
and more about being with other people and with God
lies at the heart of the Christian experience.
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Studies prove the welfare benefits of uninterrupted communal meals
or so I learned from a note beside a care homeβs visiting times.
A bachelor Christian friend returned from leave one year
announcing that was it: no more holidays without company.
Solitude during the day wasnβt the problem, eating alone at night was.
Though itβs hard not to despair when two people dining out
concentrate more on their mobiles than on one another,
at least theyβre together.
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But itβs my seasonal Communion calls Μύwhich really bring it home.
However trying the situations for those no longer able to get to Church,
itβs still a joy for me to make divine fellowship possible,
to spread holy hospitality.
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Lord God, whose Son was known for his readiness to eat with people
may the same be said for us
as we remember today all those for whom eating alone
is not the exception but the rule. AmenBroadcast
- Fri 8 Feb 2019 05:43ΒιΆΉΤΌΕΔ Radio 4