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The Limits of Friendship

Journalist Abdul-Rehman Malik explores the nature and purpose of true friendship through music and the insights of many faith traditions.

Journalist Abdul-Rehman Malik explores the nature and purpose of true friendship through the insights of writers from varied faith traditions.

He examines what the Scottish theologian Hugh Black calls the "limits of friendship", the idea that there is in each one of us a private world that no-one can inhabit. CS Lewis describes a very English type of friendship, reserved yet revealing - we can survive without it, Lewis writes, but life is so much better with it.

Running through the programme is a story by the 13th century Persian poet Farid ud-Din Attar about Shaykh Sanan, whose infatuation with a Christian girl has an enormous impact on his friends and disciples. There is poetry from Rabindranath Tagore and a story from the Quran that explains why we are especially drawn to some people and not others.

The music included in the programme, from artists as diverse as Eric Clapton and Georges Bizet, illustrates how friendship can survive despite turbulent times.

Presenter: Abdul-Rehman Malik
Producer: Jonathan Mayo
A TBI Media production for Βι¶ΉΤΌΕΔ Radio 4.

30 minutes

Last on

Sun 3 Dec 2017 23:30

Music Played

  • Jack Teagarden & Fats Waller

    That’s What I Like About You

  • Georges Bizet

    Au Fond Du Temple Saint

    Performer: Rundfunk-Sinfonieorchester Berlin.
  • Babatunde Olatunji

    Oya (Primitive Fire)

  • Simon & Garfunkel

    Old Friends (Live)

Readings

Title: A Conference of Birds: A Sufi Fable

Author: Farid ud-din Attar

Publisher: Penguin Classics


Title: Answers for Aristotle: How Science and Technology Can Lead Us To A More Meaningful Life

Author: Massimo Pigliucci

Publisher: Basic Books


Title:Β  Gitanjali

Author: Rabindranath Tagore

Publisher: Forgotten Books


Title: Four Loves

Author: CS Lewis

Publisher: Estate of CS Lewis


Title: James Baldwin: His Voice

Author:Β  Toni Morrison

Publisher: New York Times


Title:Β  Spiritual Friendship

Author: Aelred of Rievaulx

Publisher: Cistercian Publications


Title: Friendship

Author: Hugh Black

Publisher: Hodder and Stoughton

Broadcasts

  • Sun 3 Dec 2017 06:05
  • Sun 3 Dec 2017 23:30