18/12/2014
A spiritual comment and prayer to begin the day with Judy Merry.
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Judy Merry
EXPECTATION
Good morning.Β In one of her novels Jane Austen wrote about βthat sanguine expectation of happiness which is happiness itselfβ.Β Well, with Christmas just a week away, the expectation of happiness is rising.Β In fact itβs been rising for weeks now.Β
Before Iβd taken the Remembrance poppy off my coat this year, Iβd overheard parents talking to their children about what they wanted from Father Christmas.Β A comedian commenting on this relentless anticipation said, rather cynically, that Christmas is there to provide a guaranteed point of disappointment in the calendar.β
But you could argue that itβs the church which has for centuries encouraged the anticipation of Christmas.Β This is the final week in Advent - and thatβs what Advent is all about - waiting and looking forward with expectation to celebrating the birth of Jesus.Β
Of course the waiting of Advent is rather different from what our secular world calls βthe run-up to Christmasβ.Β Traditionally itβs a rather sombre time of reflection when the church encouraged fasting - not feasting.
Recently my husband got into conversation with a stranger on train (and they started talking about childhood Christmases).Β The man had been in London to organise the sale of a very expensive house which heβd inherited from his grandmother.Β The inheritance had come as something of a shock because he hadnβt thought of his grandmother as a generous woman.Β Every Christmas she would give each of the grandchildren just Β£1 and one year, when he asked for a torch, she found an old one in her house, wrapped it up and that was his Christmas present. Iβve no idea whether the grandmother was someone whoβd learned to be very careful with money, but I have a feeling the early church would think her actions said a good deal about the message of Advent. Because thereβs always that understanding that after Advent comes Christmas and if you havenβt anticipated every pleasure - sometimes literally - then when Christmas day itself comes it will seem all the brighter.
Lord, we spend so much time anticipating the pleasures of Christmas that we are often disappointed.Β In the next few days may we occasionally pause for a moment and reflect on what it is that weβre celebrating.Β Amen.
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- Thu 18 Dec 2014 05:43ΒιΆΉΤΌΕΔ Radio 4