23/08/2014
A spiritual comment and prayer to begin the day with the Reverend Mike Starkey.
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The Reverend Mike Starkey
Good morning. Back in 1985.. a professor of Educational Psychology decided to look into what it was that helps people stay happy and emotionally well-balanced. His name was Robert D Enright.Ìý He decided to carry out a survey of the academic literature on forgiveness and found there was.. none at all!
ÌýProfessor Enright started to research forgiveness.. and what he found was fascinating. He found that the ability to forgive can reduce anxiety and depression and increase self-esteem. When researchers stick electrodes onto volunteers and ask them to think about somebody who’s wronged them in the past.. heart rates and stress levels rise. People who hang onto grudges and a desire for vengeance appear to have a greater vulnerability to heart-attacks and a weakened immune system.
ÌýOn the other hand.. people who’re able to put past grudges and vengeance behind them show a lower level of stress and greater calm.
ÌýOne of the central themes of the Bible is forgiveness. Jesus tells the story of a man who’s let off a huge debt but then shows no mercy to somebody who owes him a much smaller debt. We’re encouraged to forgive others.. in the same way God forgives us. And forgiveness isn’t about working up warm fuzzy feelings about another person: it’s sometimes a hard choice we make.. an act of the will which may take time.
Heavenly Father, I pray you’ll keep me alert to this theme of forgiveness in the day ahead. Give me the humility to ask for forgiveness where I’ve done wrong. And the generosity to forgive others who’ve wronged me.Ìý Amen.
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Broadcast
- Sat 23 Aug 2014 05:43Â鶹ԼÅÄ Radio 4